I’ll always remember Jo telling us girls that learning to lead would improve our dancing, but noone ever told the men that learning to follow might just expand their horizon as well.
I don’t mind saying it again. One of the most important classes I took during my novice/advanced-beginner phase of learning was a beginner series as a follow. I remember the epiphany I had, “I have no idea what this guy wants me to do now. I wonder if my follows feel that way when they’re dancing with me? I’ll make sure that never happens!”
That led to a phase of over-leading, but I eventually dialed it back to something clear without being exaggerated.